Mentorship
Richard Gange - Mentor & Facilitator
For a compimentary 15 minute consultation, please contact Richard.
Richard@Solazzare.com
908.202.1949
Please click here for all Mentorship Testiomnials.
I become what I might be."
- Lao Tzu
The Process
My mission as a mentor is to hold a space that is safe, confidential and empathic. Our work will begin from the foundation that you have already established. Through conversation and exploratory activities you will uncover your passions. These discoveries will allow the personal growth and expansion that will enable you to set out on a path that feels genuine and inspiring. As a result, you will achieve and thrive in all the aspects of your personal and professional life to which you have aspired.
I have reflected on the direction I wanted for myself as well as how I brought about changes that have created the life I now live. Because mentoring is a collaborative relationship, I will be glad to draw from what I have learned in order to support you. You will get assistance in ways that enhance growth, focus perspective, clarify issues, increase learning, establish and achieve goals, and master skills. My role is to guide, help shape ideas, offer a sounding board, provide perspective, support, affirm and inspire. All of which will be focused on a single goal, to help you reveal and embrace the person you want to be.
"Anybody can do just about anything with himself that he really wants to and makes up his mind to do. We are capable of greater things than we realize." - Norman Vincent Peale |
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Experience
I have had much success as a mentor. During my 30 years as a public school educator, I mentored many student and first year teachers. I was also involved with establishing a mentoring program in the district in which I taught. Currently, I enjoy mentoring all different types of people with all different types of goals. Here are a few of my clients who have been experiencing positive results:
An organically trained chef asked for my help to clarify her goals as she prepared a series of lessons to help cancer patients understand how to choose and prepare food most advantageous to their recovery.
- Patricia C., Chef |
I have offered guidance and support to a very successful professional as she has moved through many changes in both the personal and professional aspects of her life.
"Richard has been my mentor for over 5 years. In that time, he has helped support my personal and professional growth in so many ways. He is a wise and grounded presence in my life and provides me with consistent motivation, encouragement, insight and kindness. I consider him to be my own personal, wise counsel. I can go to Richard with anything, and he will hold a safe, non-judgmental space for me to process through any issue I may have. He has helped me see through my husband’s eyes, which has strengthened my marriage. He has helped me move beyond my fears, which has given me the courage to pursue my dreams. He has helped me clarify my goals, which has inspired me to take action. He has helped me become a better instructor, which has allowed me to engage my students in discovery as opposed to simply giving them information. And perhaps most important, he has helped me become a better person by his demonstration of being present and allowing the moment to unfold with gratitude. Richard doesn't give advice. Our sessions feel more like a sharing that brings about empowerment. He mindfully breathes, listens and offers insight, while allowing you to arrive at your own answers. I think every person could benefit on all levels by having a mentor, like Richard." - Chara R., Bridgewater, NJ |
The principal of a high school has enhanced his skills as an instructional leader, established and implemented a clear mission statement and is leading his staff in a new direction as a result of our work together.
"I am very pleased and honored to write this testimonial for Richard. Richard is a talented and dedicated professional who takes his craft seriously. I am a high school principal who is dedicated to providing a quality education to every one of my students. Richard has helped me develop a meaningful vision of education for my school and he has worked with me to improve the skills necessary for me to do my best as an instructional leader. I give Richard my highest recommendation and believe that you will be very satisfied with his high level of expertise and enthusiasm." - Peter R., West Orange, NJ |
At a very low point in her life, a young woman sought my assistance. She had looked to many sources but did not find the kind of help that resonated with her. As a result of our work together, she now believes that a life full of the things she dreams of is now a part of her future. Please click here for a video testimonial from this client.
"When I started my sessions with Richard, I was hopeless, broken, confused, directionless, angry, resentful, unhappy, overweight, overstressed, over analytical and desperate. Presently, these feelings have either changed completely, are under control, or still being addressed. Richard is not a miracle worker. He does not have a recipe for instant success. What he has is the desire to teach those who want to learn; the talent and skill to convey his knowledge and experiences in ways that anyone can receive; and a gift of unconditional patience, hope, and understanding for whatever your needs are. This past year, Richard has shown me a way to live the life that I truly desire. To begin with, I needed to find out what that desire was and from that point, he showed me how to achieve it. He has helped me to learn what I call Life Tools. The most important tools that I have acquired thus far are: Breathing. I learned to really breathe. I learned to quiet my mind, be present, and be grateful for what I was experiencing. Manifesting. I call it daydreaming. However, it goes beyond just a simple fantasy. Manifesting is breathing life into thoughts by giving them color, sound, taste, smell and most of all believing that these thoughts will actually happen. Not only did I have to believe in them, I had to live like they would happen at any time. The life tool that most impacted my life, such as how I think, how I move forward, how I feel about myself, is allowing my Heart to be the driving force while still allowing my Mind to be the fuel. I describe this as living by inspiration rather than perspiration. It has always been the other way around in my life. My mind had to be the impetus. It didn’t matter what my heart felt. I simply call this tool Love. I am a work in progress. However, Richard has taken me further than I could have ever imagined for myself. I did my part by being open-minded. He did his part by showing me how to Dream A Better Dream. Together, we gave this dream a Life. Today, I can admit that I am happy. I am also freer. I am 40 lbs. lighter! I am also on what I call a practice break. I learned so much that I wanted to take some time to put my new tools into practice. I have dug into my tool belt many times with wonderful results. During one of our last sessions together, I told Richard that this was not a Dream come true but rather a Life Come True." |
I work with an author as he clarifies his understanding of life changing events that have motivated him to write a book about his experiences.
"Richard Gange coming into my life has been the equivalent of having 'manna fall from heaven'. I was writing a book about the lessons I learned as a result of experiencing a severe stroke. The work desperately needed editing. Without Richard's guidance, I don’t believe my book would have completely drawn the breath of life. In our work together, Richard has become so much more than my editor. I am honored to say he has become my mentor and friend. His knowledge and teachings have added significant depth to the fabric of my life."
- Eric L., East Windsor, NJ
“A person can not choose wisely for life unless she dares to listen to herself, her own self, at each moment in life.” - Abraham Maslow |
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